One of the greatest challenges we face as women today is balancing work and life with marriage, kids, and health...leading to boredom, burnout, or breakdown. When you first got married, you swore to yourselves you'd never be that couple who constantly argued and only had sex once a year...and yet today, that's exactly where you find yourself.
No sex, shitty communication, constant bickering, and little to no trust...no wonder you feel unseen, unheard, and unappreciated, asking yourself if this is as good as it gets, or even questioning whether or not you want to be with him anymore.
If survival has become the goal, I get it, ladies. I once felt this way, too. I was constantly snapping at my husband, and we fought almost daily about (the lack of) sex. There was no real trust between us, and I felt like I always had to walk on eggshells around him so he wouldn't blow up.
I held on to the glimmer of hope that maybe, just maybe, when the kids get older, or I didn't have to work as much...then things would get better. So I distracted myself, taking on even more responsibilities around the house, committing to more activities with/for the kids, doing more unnecessary busy work, feeding more self-blame, choosing more numbing with TV, food, and wine...until I reached a breaking point.
I got sick and tired of being a victim to my husband's depression, volatile anger, unpredictable moods, and passivity in life. I'd suffered enough. I was DONE feeling stuck and hopeless in my marriage, and determined to find a solution.
I want to share with you that it IS possible to have a relationship that excites and energizes you. It IS possible to be seen, heard, and acknowledged by your husband. It IS possible to have peace, joy, and laughter in your home, with your partner. It IS possible to break out of the same old shit you keep fighting about, without wasting months or years trying to figure it out on your own...and I'd like to help guide you through that path.
My husband and I have overcome depression, disability, multiple relocations, bankruptcy, and more hardships than I can list here; not to mention, raising and co-parenting four kids. For many years, the conflict in our relationship felt never-ending, to the point that our kids would avoid being around us and were terrified our family was going to be separated. Today, we have a thriving relationship, great sex, deep connection, and real, raw, open communication.
Through either one-on-one or group coaching, I'll take you through the steps we've discovered the hard way; the same steps that have helped many of my past and current clients transform their relationships before their husbands even touched therapy, counseling or coaching. You'll learn the "reverse engineered" path to unlock power in your sex life, communication, confidence, connection and more, through a series of carefully laid-out steps over the course of our time together. Each week adds exponential momentum through daily steps that take no more than 1 hour. You invest into your marriage every day for the duration of our coaching together, and I'll help you transform your marriage for life.
You don't have to be at the end of your rope to create a more fulfilling, passionate, connected relationship...and your partner doesn't have to be engaged in therapy, counseling, or coaching for you to experience transformative results. Approach this experience with the openness to see things differently and the willingness to put these core principles into action. If you're ready for your marriage or relationship to flourish, I invite you to reserve a time to connect, or complete your enrollment below!